relationship 101.

Relationships comprise of sharing with our partners how to communicate with us and attune themselves to us, not teach them.

A girlfriend shouldn't be teaching the boyfriend how to be a boyfriend and vice versa.

because if everything needs to be taught, it kills the element of surprise and to a certain extent, dulls the feelings.

so where to learn?

from female/male friends, books, internet, parents (if you are blessed with lovely parents) and the saddest channel- heartbreaks and failed relationships.

i will definitely teach my son(s) how to treat girls right in the future.